Are The Men We Chase Worth Having?

There are some women who are still caught up in the fairytale world of Disney, that if we are really good girls Prince Charming will eventually find us and we will live happily ever after. Unfortunately that is not the reality, we are force to push forward and conduct a search and rescue party in an attempt to find our man. That's when we say all that "Where my girls at?" "Bitches over Bros" and ladies night is every night. But no matter how much of a "player" we claim we are, there is always that part of us that wants to let go and let someone else be in charge because our nature tells us so.

So while you may be juggling between the sexy guy you met at the club that you haven't let hit it because you don't want him to think you're a hoe, your co-worker you're "talking to" because he's nice and the guy that's boosting your ego, you're not interested but he makes you feel good so you keep him around, how do you decide who's worth it?
The guy you met at the club already thinks you're a hoe. Why because you're single and desperate in his eyes, why would you be in the club grinding your ass to produce hard dicks if you don't want to fuck? You wouldn't want a strange man grinding his dick on you on the train or public bus, so why would you let a strange man in the club do unless you want some. So if you sleep with him don't expect a long term relationship take it for what it is, a glorified booty call that may run into a couple weeks, months at best. No matter what he says, if you choose to catch feelings for this man in hopes of something serious its no ones fault but your own to be so naive.

You may feel that your co-worker would be the best choice because you know him, you feel safe around him and that's how sheep gets lured into wolves mouth. When you get involve with men with whom you've shared previous experience however nonsexual, it lures you into a false sense of security. You trust him, because you cease to view him as from Mars, he's no longer a foreigner yet but has being given exemption visa status to Venus with dual citizenship. You tend to get hurt in these relationships because you never see the bullshit coming, he will use all the information you have unwilling volunteered against you.(this is why men and women can be friends) You will be crushed and destroyed before you ever see it coming, because while you're giving him the benefit of the doubt of being your "friend" and while you think the same courtesy is being extended towards you, you are being completely taken advantage of and for granted.

So your best choice would be..... not the pushover either, women need to learn to fall in love with themselves and take casual sex for what it is, a spectacular feat of bedroom skills a Clash of the Titans(especially if he's well endowed, don't be afraid to get up and leave if he isn't). We need to enjoy single life and take things slow. Cinderella and Snow White only married the Princes because they were tired of cleaning up after other people.